[스포츠조선 문지연 기자] 남자친구가 유산한 고민녀와의 결혼을 상의도 없이 취소하며 충격을 안겼다.[Sports Chosun reporter Moon Ji-yeon] I was shocked by canceling my marriage with a woman who had a miscarriage by her boyfriend without consultation.
지난 7일 방송된 KBS Joy 예능프로그램 '연애의 참견' 162회에서는 6세 연하 남자친구와 6개월째 연애 중인 고민녀의 사연이 공개됐다.In the 162nd episode of KBS Joy's entertainment program "Interfere in Love," which aired on the 7th, the story of Ko Min-yeo, who has been dating her boyfriend for six months, was revealed.
고민녀는 비혼주의자였지만 임신을 하자 아이를 낳기로 결심했다.She was a non-maritalist, but when she got pregnant, she decided to have a baby. 며칠 잠수를 탔던 남자친구는 다시 돌아와 프러포즈를 했고 두 사람은 본격적으로 결혼식을 준비했다.The boyfriend, who had been underwater for a few days, came back and proposed to her, and they prepared for the wedding in earnest. 그러나 남자친구는 결혼식 준비에 무관심했고 수중에 가진 돈도 많지 않아 고민녀 혼자 결혼식 준비를 떠안아야 했다.However, her boyfriend was indifferent to preparing for the wedding, and she had to take care of the wedding by herself because she didn't have much money.
그러던 중 안타깝게 유산이 됐고, 고민녀는 괴로웠지만 자신을 지극정성으로 챙겨주는 남자친구를 보며 힘을 얻었다.Then, unfortunately, it became a miscarriage, and Ko Min-nyeo suffered, but she gained strength from seeing her boyfriend who took care of her with all her heart. 그때 남자친구는 예식장 등 결혼식 관련된 것들을 모두 취소했다고 말했다.At that time, my boyfriend said he had canceled everything related to the wedding, including the wedding hall.
남자친구는 고민녀는 원래 비혼주의자였고 아이 때문에 결혼하기로 한 거니 당연히 취소하는 게 맞다면서 하루라도 빨리 취소해야 위약금을 물지 않는다고 주장했고, 고민녀는 상의도 없이 혼자 취소해버린 냉정한 남자친구에게 충격받았다.The boyfriend claimed that Ko Min-nyeo was originally a non-maritalist and decided to marry because of her child, so it's right to cancel it, so she doesn't pay the penalty if she cancels it as soon as possible, and Ko Min-nyeo was shocked by her cold boyfriend who canceled it alone without consulting.
주우재는 "너무 기다렸다는 듯이 취소했다"며 황당해했고, 한혜진은 "유산한 사람 앞에서 어떻게 위약금 얘길 하냐.Joo Woo-jae said, "I canceled it as if I had waited too long," and Han Hye-jin said, "How can I talk about penalties in front of a miscarried person?" 헤어져라. 바닥까지 다 봤다.Break up. I've seen the bottom. 이런 상황에 어떤 좋은 추억이 남고 어떤 미래가 있겠냐.What kind of good memories and what kind of future do you have in this situation? 안 좋은 쪽으로 다 경험했다"라고 분노했다.I've experienced all the bad things."
곽정은은 "결과적으론 결혼하지 않은 게 맞았을 거라고 본다.Kwak Jung-eun said, "As a result, I think it would have been right not to get married. 그런데 고민녀의 몸이 안정된 뒤에 말했어야 했다.However, she should have said it after her body was stable. 위약금보다 고민녀 마음의 상처가 덜 나게 하는 게 더 중요"하다고 지적했고, 김숙은 "중요한 건 '말도 없이'"라며 "상의도 없이 일을 처리하는 남자와 왜 결혼하냐.He pointed out that it is more important to hurt a woman's heart than a penalty, and Kim Sook said, "The important thing is 'without words,'" adding, "Why marry a man who handles things without consultation?" 그런 남자와 결혼하지 말아라"라고 조언했다.Don't marry such a man."
마지막으로 서장훈은 "남자친구는 남의 마음을 헤아리지 못하는 수준의 사람인데 뭘 아쉬워하냐.Finally, Seo Jang-hoon said, "My boyfriend is at a level where he can't understand other people's feelings, so what's wrong with him?" 아무리 나이가 어려도 이런 수준의 사람과 결혼을 어떻게 생각하겠나.No matter how young you are, what would you think of marrying someone at this level? 조금도 미련 두지 말고 차버려라.Kick it without hesitation. 저런 사람이 아빠가 된다는 건 너무 별로"라고 말했다.I don't like it when someone like that becomes a father."