[OSEN=김수형 기자] ‘오은영의 금쪽 상담소'에서 민지영이 임신에 집착할 수 밖에 없던 이유를 전한 가운데 김형균이 이혼까지 생각할 수 밖에 없던 안타까운 상황을 전했다.[OSEN = Reporter Kim Soo-hyung] While Min Ji-young told the reason why she had no choice but to be obsessed with pregnancy at Oh Eun-young's gold counseling center, Kim Hyung-kyun reported the unfortunate situation where she had no choice but to think about divorce. 게다가 민지영이 암수술까지 미루며 난자를 채취했던 아픈 일화를 전하기도 했다.In addition, Min Ji-young told a painful story of collecting eggs by delaying cancer surgery.
2일 방송된 채널A 예능 '오은영의 금쪽 상담소'에서 민지영, 김형균 부부가 난임을 고백했다.On Channel A's entertainment show Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center, which aired on the 2nd, Min Ji-young and Kim Hyung-kyun confessed their infertility.
어느 덧 결혼 5년차라는 두 사람.They have been married for five years. 김형균은 “민지영 연기는 맛보기, 현실 연기는 마라맛이다,‘사랑과 전쟁’은 예고편에 불과하다”고 폭로했다.Kim Hyung-kyun revealed, "Min Ji-young's acting is a preview, and real acting is mala flavored. 'Love and War' is just a preview." 이에 민지영은 “여기 부부솔루션 받으러 온 것, 싸우러온 거 아니다Min Jiyoung said, "I'm here to get a solution from a married couple. I'm not here to fight." 땀난다”며 당황했다.I'm sweating."
민지영도 “연애할 땐 한 살 연하라도 듬직했는데 결혼하니 제가 없으면 아무 것도 할 줄 아니게 없어 ,끔찍할 정도”라며 “너무 나에게 집착한다, 물잔이 앞에 있어도 모른다”고 폭로했다.Min Ji-young also revealed, "When I was in a relationship, I was reliable even if I was a year younger, but when I got married, I couldn't do anything without me. I'm so obsessed with myself, I don't know even if there's a glass of water in front of me. 이에 김형균은 “연애시절 식사도 중 전화를 받더니 ‘여보~’라고 하더라, 연애 다섯번 했을 때”라며 “내가 당했나 싶더라, 정말 놀랐다”고 했다.In response, Kim Hyung-kyun said, "When I was in a relationship, he answered the phone while eating and said, 'Honey~', when I was in a relationship five times," adding, "I was really surprised." 알고보니 ‘사랑과 전쟁’ 남편 배역을 했던 배우들과 장난으로 했던 것.It turned out that she played the role of her husband in "Love and War" as a joke. 김형균은 “그렇게 자기, 여보하는 남편이 7~8명 됐다”고 하자 민지영은 “선을 넘었다”며 이를 꽉 물었다.When Kim Hyung-kyun said, "So honey, I have seven to eight husbands," Min Ji-young asked tightly, saying, "I crossed the line."
본격적으로 두 사람의 고민을 물었다.I asked them their concerns in earnest. 바로 난임이었던 것. 오은영은 “서로 마음고생하는데 서로 상처될 까 말하지 못한 어려움도 이해가 된다”고 했다.It was infertility. Oh Eun-young said, "I understand the difficulty of not being able to say that we are going through difficulties with each other." 부부만족도 검사에서 두 사람은 심각한 수준의 결혼생활에 대한 불만이 있다는 것.In the marital satisfaction test, the two were dissatisfied with the serious level of marital life.14가지 항목에서 모두 심각 수준이 나왔다고 했다.He said that all 14 items had serious levels. 오은영은 “그 중 가장 심각한 건 정서적인 소통 부분”이라며 언급,특히 정서적 소통을 피한 김형균은 “오해가 쌓이고 아이에 대한 견해가 갈리다보니까 서운했던 마음과 견해차로 스트레스가 생길 것 같아, 또 싸움이 올 것 같아 피한 것 같다”고 했다.Oh Eun-young mentioned, "The most serious thing among them is emotional communication," especially Kim Hyung-kyun, who avoided emotional communication, said, "As misunderstandings accumulate and opinions about children diverge, I think I avoided it because I think there will be another fight."
민지영은 “남편한테 많이 실망했다, 배란기 때 부부관계 해야 임신이 될까 말까인데 배란기만 되면 촬영 중에도 빨리 집에 가야하는데 마음이 급했다”면서 “하지만 남편은 퇴근해서 누우면 바로 잠이 든다”고 했다.Min Ji-young said, "I'm very disappointed with my husband, I have to have a marital relationship during ovulation to become pregnant, but I had to go home quickly even during the shoot when I ovulated," adding, "But my husband falls asleep as soon as he gets off work." 시험관 시술하려고 건강검진 하려던 도중, 바로 갑산선암에 걸렸다는 얘기를 들었다.While trying to get a medical examination for a test tube procedure, I was immediately told that I had Gapsan adenocarcinoma. 암 수술을 3개월 미뤄놓고 3개월 연속 시험관 시술을 시도했다는 것. He delayed cancer surgery for three months and attempted to perform in vitro for three consecutive months.
민지영은 “내 몸에 있는 장기하나 최선을 다해서 써봐야 싶어서, 임신 위해서 괜찮다고 다 견딜 수있다고 해, 어떠한 시련이 와도 냉동 배아 10개 다 사용해보겠다고 각오했다”고 했다.Min Ji-young said, "I wanted to try my best to use one organ in my body, so I said it was okay to get pregnant and I could endure it, so I was prepared to use all 10 frozen embryos no matter what." 김형균은 “저보고 차라리 이혼하라고 다른 사람 만나 행복한 가정을 꾸려라고 할 정도”라 했고 민지영도 “내가 이혼해야 끝날 것 같았다, 그게 답이라 생각이 들었다Kim Hyung-kyun said, "I would rather get divorced and meet someone else to make a happy family," and Min Ji-young also said, "I thought it would end only when I got divorced, and I thought that was the answer. 그래서 그때 신랑에게 이혼을 요구했다”고 떠올렸다.So I asked my husband to divorce me."
두번째 유산한 민지영의 마음은 어땠는지 물었다.I asked how Min Ji-young felt after her second miscarriage. 민지영은 “아이를 갖기 위해 건강검진했을 대 갑상샘암 판정을 받아그래도 포기히자 않아, 이만하면 다행이다 생각했다”며 “수술을 3개월 미뤄두고 몰아서 난자채취를 기계처럼 했다”고 했다.Min Ji-young said, "I thought it was a relief that I didn't give up because I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer when I had a medical examination to have a child," adding, "I pushed back the surgery for three months and collected eggs like a machine." 암수술까지 연기하며 난자채취를 했다는 것.He even performed cancer surgery to collect eggs.
이를 반대했다는 김형균은은 “난자채취가 몸에 부담감이 있다, 3개월 연속으로 진행하니 아내 건강이 걱정됐다”며 무리하지 말고 한 번만 하자고 했다.Kim Hyung-kyun, who opposed this, said, "There is a burden on the body, and I was worried about my wife's health because it was conducted for three consecutive months," adding, "Don't overdo it and just do it once." 하지만 아내의 의지로 3개월간 3번의 난자채취를 했다는 것.However, he collected eggs three times in three months at the will of his wife. 김형균은 “걱정은 되지만 말리면 방해하는 역할이 되니 점점 더 서로 엇나갔다”고 했다.Kim Hyung-kyun said, "I'm worried, but if I stop them, they play a role in disturbing each other, so we went further and further apart." 민지영은 “내가 아이 갖는게 옆집 아줌마가 갖는거냐고 물을 정도”라며 임신 시도를 말리는 김형균에게 서운했던 마음을 전했다.Min Ji-young expressed her disappointment to Kim Hyung-kyun, who was trying to stop her pregnancy, saying, "I even asked if the woman next door had a child."
김형균은 “(아내가) 처음 이혼 얘기했을 대 법적으로 5년간 냉동배아를 보관할 수 있어1년이 지나 냉동을 연장하겠냐는 문자가 왔고, 아내가 임신에 대한 회의를 느낀 것, 냉동배아 포기하고 이혼까지 생각한 아내가 너무 충격적이었다”며 “제가 없는게 아내가 더 행복할 것 같아 이혼을 결심했다”고 고백했다.Kim Hyung-kyun confessed, "I got a text message asking if my wife would extend the freezing after a year because she could legally store frozen embryos for five years, and I was shocked that my wife felt skeptical about pregnancy and gave up frozen embryos and thought about divorce."
오은영은 ‘터널시야의 함정’이라며 한가지 문제에만 고착되는 현상이라고 했다.Oh Eun-young said that it is a "trap of tunnel vision" and that it is a phenomenon that sticks to only one problem. 임신에 몰두한 민지영이 어쩌면 부부 목표가 오로지 임신이 됐다는 것.Min Ji-young, who is immersed in pregnancy, said, "Maybe the couple's goal is to become pregnant." 그러면서 “힘들 때 가장 위로가 필요한 배우자, 이해와 위로를 받지 못할 때 가족의 지지와 도움이 필요하다”고 조언했다.He advised, "I need support and help from my spouse who needs the most comfort when I'm in trouble, and my family when I don't get understanding and comfort."
한편, 채널A 예능 '오은영의 금쪽 상담소’는 0세부터 100세까지!On the other hand, Channel A's entertainment show Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center runs from 0 to 100 years old! 다양한 고민을 함께 풀어가보는 국민 멘토 오은영의 전국민 멘탈 케어 프로그램으로 매주 금요일 밤 9시 30분에 방송된다.It is a national mental care program by Oh Eun-young, a national mentor who solves various concerns together, and airs every Friday night at 9:30 p.m.
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[사진] '오은영의 금쪽 상담소'[Picture] "Oh Eunyoung's Golden Counseling Center".