MBN '고딩엄빠2' 방송화면 캡쳐MBN "High School Mom and Dad 2" broadcast screen capture.
[헤럴드POP=원해선 기자] 남자친구의 변심으로 미혼모가 된 고딩엄빠의 사연이 공개됐다.[Herald Pop = Reporter Won Hae-sun] The story of a high school mom who became a single mother due to her boyfriend's change of heart has been revealed.
20일 방송된 MBN ‘고딩엄빠2’에서는 어린 나이에 부모가 된 이들의 고민이 전파를 탔다.In MBN's "High School Mom 2" aired on the 20th, concerns of those who became parents at an early age were broadcast.
차희원의 친아빠는 가정 폭력 사유로 이혼을 했고, 새아빠는 도박에 빠져 이혼을 했다.Cha Hee-won's biological father divorced due to domestic violence, and his stepfather fell into gambling and divorced. 5남매의 맏딸이었던 차희원은 엄마와 함께 공동 육아를 하며 자랐고, 차희원의 엄마는 출산 후 잦은 탈출로 속을 썩이는 딸에 “출산하고 산후 우울증인지 모르겠는데 많이 답답해하고 스트레스도 많이 받는 것 같아서 희원이에게 병원 치료를 권유했다”라고 말했다.Cha Hee-won, the eldest daughter of five siblings, grew up co-rearing with her mother, and Cha Hee-won's mother told her daughter, who was troubled by frequent escape after childbirth, "I don't know if it's postpartum depression, but I recommended Hee-won to hospital treatment." 차희원의 엄마는 “아빠의 사랑도 못 줬고 혼자 키우면서 더 많은 사랑을 줬어야 했는데 저도 어리다 보니까 철이 없어서 사랑을 많이 못 줬다.Cha Hee-won's mother said, "I couldn't give my father's love and I should have given him more love while raising him alone, but I was young, so I couldn't give him much love because I was immature. 첫째 딸로서 의지를 많이 했다”라며 미안해했다.As the first daughter, I relied on her a lot."
차희원은 어릴 적 육아 부담과 현재의 육아 스트레스가 쌓인 상황이었지만 엄마는 “네가 낳았잖아.Cha Hee-won was in a situation where the burden of childcare was accumulated when she was young and the current stress of childcare was accumulated, but her mother said, "You gave birth to her. 어린 나이에 애 낳고 사는데 한참 청춘인데 나가 놀고 싶은 마음은 이해한다.I understand that you want to go out and play even though you are young because you have children and live at a young age. 엄마도 그랬으니까.That's what my mother did. 그런데 다 키우고 놀아도 늦지는 않아”라고 쓴소리를 했다.But it's not too late to raise them all and play."
차희원에게는 중학생때부터 친하게 지내온 든든한 남사친 두 명이 있었다.Cha Hee-won had two reliable male friends who had been close since middle school. 이지만은 “오랫동안 봐왔던 친구고 이럴 때 도와줘야겠다는 생각이 든다.Lee Ji-man said, "I've seen him for a long time, and I think I should help him at times like this. 저도 모르게 공주님 대접하는 것 같다”라고 속마음을 털어놨다.I feel like I'm treating her like a princess without realizing it."
차희원은 “아이 아빠를 너무 많이 믿어서 걱정은 하나도 안 했었다”라면서 “시설 퇴소하기 두 달 전부터 편지가 안 왔다.Cha Hee-won said, "I trusted my child's father so much that I didn't worry at all," adding, "I didn't receive a letter two months before I left the facility." 엄마는 자꾸 전화와서 편지가 안 온다고 걱정된다고 마음이 변한 게 아니냐고 했는데 그럴 애가 아니라고 했다”라며 굳건했던 믿음을 고백했다.My mom kept calling me and asked if I had changed my mind because I was worried that I wouldn't get a letter, but she said she wasn't." and confessed her firm belief.
하지만 결국 아이의 친부는 연락두절 상태가 됐고, 차희원은 “그런데 6개원 만에 그렇게 변할 거였으면 자기 엄마한테 설득 당해서 마음이 변할 거였으면 그런 선택을 애초에 했었다고 생각해”라며 씁쓸해했다.However, in the end, the child's biological father lost contact, and Cha Hee-won bitterly said, "But if I was going to change like that in six won, I think I would have made that choice in the first place if I was persuaded by my mother and changed my mind."
이어 최근 연락 온 아이의 친부가 아이를 입양 보내자고 했다며 연락 또한 발신번호표시제한으로 왔다고 전했다.He then said that the child's biological father, who recently contacted him, asked him to adopt the child, and that the contact was also restricted from displaying the calling number. 이에 신아영은 “찌질해”라고 분노했다.Shin A-young was furious at the news, saying, "I'm a loser." 차희원은 “자기 전화번호를 알리기 싫은 거 같다”라고 덧붙였다.Cha Hee-won added, "I don't think he wants to give his phone number."
한편 ‘고딩엄빠2’는 10대에 부모가 된 고딩엄빠들의 다양한 이야기와 좌충우돌, 세상과 부딪히며 성장하는 리얼 가족 프로그램이다.Meanwhile, "High School Mom 2" is a real family program that grows up by bumping into the world, and various stories of high school parents who became parents in their teens.