[osen : a reporter Kim Soo Hyung] ‘Oh Eun-young gold piece of advice office.’ seonyege in which withdrew from the Wonder Girls in 10 years the real reason why they said.It was him and promising new start a heartfelt apology to fans.
Sun-ye singer back in 10 years, the program aired on channel ‘Oh Eun-young gold piece of advice office.’ to the arts, a has appeared.It was the Wiener Minho the activity also added that City Hall experienced at the time of the instrument, "appeared fully think that can be honest with your feelings." and mention the agony. Sun-ye shooting a flare activity 10 years confounded the white spaces.Make to raise three children for 10 years and three albums to choose one of Sun Ye said, when the album three, it is easier.I want to, '' smiled, releasing an album.2012 nyeonse daughter earlier this year after the music scene, the mother of an entertainment show to return to 'Your Majesty in stone' Sun Ye, the very thing recently made his debut as a 'just a dancer'.
Asked the problem of childcare brilliant comeback after 10 years, Sun Ye in earnest.Asked about the 26 years old and my mom when It was the very feelings, " can't, OK, it's all right in.Marriage is accepted as a new start in life, I have selected, " there's usually a big impact, saying it confirmed.In particular, that It was the natural childbirth at home without a painless injection "In the old days mothers don't you, once proven because there's anything I wanted to see." said.
Asked about postpartum depression.It was the "Well, (hard) was transferred and the idea, Ken well in a given environment is his wife, the mother I wanted to to do that." and showed a serene.And It was the "don't have married around, no one is really to turn to." and even alone wasn't easy, but I have indicated that all right.A tug boat find a way to live alone in unfamiliar environment.
Originally asked some calm personality.It was the "So it seems, at one point from going beyond ' hard work may think is, all right, it became a habit." said.Oh Eun-young, " Looking carefully at this seriously asked.It didn't really a hard time for to raise three children from other countries?The most difficult time in life seems hard "I asked him It was the". "and" ", frankly said."the hardest, but also the happiest moment." they added.
This for the option of a recognition in return for "It seems hard to deny it" and "to decisions and choices I talk much.", and I did it.Nothing to regret his choice to exist.Oh Eun-young, saying it was "difficult, but I'll do my best one choice that it's okay to feel emotions and thoughts naturally is different." comfortable expressing a difficult figure said.And "repression and suppress negative to the hard feelings in me, of course, while difficult to express themselves that it is difficult to deny man's features" it said.
It was the "Since his debut as fresh as paint, his childhood nickname is ' serious ' dakyumin" he said, they say it is harsh on himself to perfection.It was the "flogged himself to make sure the style to make a mistake on stage in the lead and even practice." and said, "I can't come with me is a member but seems to be about me.".In particular, a microphone stand as 'Nobody' to the stage to one minor mistakes and accidents might occur.It was also felt their responsibility to the leader of the Sun Ye.That's how much beating yourself up for a considerable responsibility to come.
That Sun Ye, too. if misunderstood dokttakjjeogirago그 이유에 대해 그는 "원더걸스 탈퇴 발표했을 때"라며 회상, 당시 선예는 원더걸스를 버렸다고 평가될 정도로 달갑지 않은 시선을 받기도 했다.It was the "Wonder Girls in the first place was Sun Ye, and out that the burden and responsibility." said.It was the "At that time, more a question mark in me." and realized that a lot of impact on teenage culture that he said, " Shall I'm not good to be careful.The lyrics will have a negative impact on the obsessive one word I even thought the general public, and I felt a heavy burden as much as when we had to be loved, Sun Ye.
In particular, It was the funeral and "When you run through the streets of success and a father to father died" think again about the purpose for the life and twice at a time when said.He was "dream life, but ultimately led to a fundamental question, a handful of ashes. A and a question mark." and " is that it, and emptiness that can not be expressed and have emotions.I won't be able to fill the void the more famous and you get rich, not happy that it " Since the stage as it used to.At one point, have burnout.
It was the "I don't like it used to be one thought the timing that should rest." and need rest as much as I heard you said, " More and mental agony with deeper than ever, and one and only members, like sorry for the moment.My anxiety do not want to hurt the members was leader and I chose withdrew with a sense of responsibility in what it said.
이에 오은영은 "정신과 의사로 이해하지만 일반인이 듣긴 앞뒤가 안 맞는 말"이라며 "대중은 원더걸스 완전체에서 힘을 발휘해, 한 명이 빠지면 영향이 크다 탈퇴가 오히려 말도 안 되는 반응이 왔던 것, 팬들이 오해하지 않을 방법도 많은데 왜 극단적인 탈퇴를 택했을까 이해가 안 된다"고 말했다.
이에 대해 선예는 "'탈퇴'라는 말이 불러온 오해가 있다"며 "오히려 결혼과 육아로 인한 선예 때문에 활동을 못한다는 오해가 있어 2~3년간 공백기간이 있었다"면서 탈퇴하지 않은 자신 때문에 다른 멤버들이 피해를 보고 있다고 오해받은 상황이었다고 했다. 선예는 "나 때문에 다른 멤버들이 상처받고 어려운 일이 생기면 안 된다는 생각에 공식적으로 내 역할을 깔끔하게 정리해야할 것 같았다, (내가 탈퇴하면) 독립적으로 멤버들이 활동할 수 있을거라 생각했다"며 "개인적으로 탈퇴해도 원더걸스와의 시간은 없어지는건 아니기 때문"이라며 탈퇴 이유를 전했다.
무엇보다 선예는 "사춘기 때 결국 한 번 폭발했다 그 후 모든 일에 덤덤해졌다"며 "(한 번 아빠랑 크게 부딪힌 후) 난 이제 무서울게 없다는 심리상태가 됐다 모든 감정이 마비된 느낌"이라며 덤덤히 말했다.
선예는 "아버지도 불혹 나이로 돌아가셨다 폐 관련 지병이 있던 상태, 내가 데뷔하고 나서도 아버지는 호흡기로 의지하다 돌아가셨다"며 회상, 아버지에게 인정을 받아본 적이 있는지 묻자 선예는 "13세 때 오디션을 봤다"면서 "가수의 꿈을 꾸다 실패했던 아버지가 절대 가수는 안 된다고 말리셨는데 오디션 3차까지 합격하니 그때 처음으로 열심히 하라고 격려를 받아 아빠가 못 이룬 꿈을 내가 이뤄야겠단 생각을 했다"고 했다.
그렇게 결국 350대 1 경쟁에서 합격한 선예는 "지금 생각해보면 아빠에게 처음으로 인정받은 순간이다"고 떠올렸다.
이 가운데 오은영은 선예의 또 다른 내면을 포착했다. 출생부터 인정받지 못한 선예의 아픈 과거를 언급,
존재 자체를 부정당한 선예의 삶을 안타깝게 바라보며 "대부분 여러 방식으로 고통을 표현해, 어떤 사람은 죽고싶어하기도 하고 불안해하기도 한다"며 "이와 달리, 선예의 경우인간 민선예를 증명하고자 애를 썼다,
증명하지 않아도 될 존재를 증명하기 위해 삶을 살아왔다"며 예리하게 바라봤다. 그렇게 원더걸스 활동으로 정상의 자리를 올라야 나라는 존재가 증명되는 것이었을 거라고. 멤버들을 이끌며 피나는 노력을 한 선예였다.
오은영은 "선예는 정상에 오른 순간 존재를 증명한 것 최고의 정점을 찍었을 때 그만뒀던 것"이라며 "그렇게 가수로서의 목표도 사라져버린 것일 수 있다 ,대신 증명없이 존재하는 것만으로도 행복한 가족이 필요했던 것"이라고 말했다. 이에 선예도 "맞다 증명하려 애썼던 삶이었다"고 인정했다. 선예는 "이렇게 목표를 이루니 번아웃, 공허함을 느꼈다 어린 시절도 외동이라 외로움을 느껴의지할 수 있는 누군가가 필요했고 결혼할 사람이 보였을 때 내 타이밍이란 확신이 있었다"며 그렇게 결혼을 했고, 가족은 선예에게 새로운 삶의 이정표가 됐다고 전했다.
이때, 오은영은 "지금의 선예라면 그 당시에 원더걸스 탈퇴를 했을까"라며 어려운 질문을 던졌다. 선예는 "지금의 선예라면? 원더걸스 탈퇴하지 않고 계속했을 것 그래도 결혼은 하지 않았을까 싶다"고 했다.선예는 "좀 더 정리가 돼서 (팬들이) 상처받지 않도록 많은 소통했을 것"이라며 자신을 돌아봤다. 그러더니 선예는 카메라를 바라보며 "마음을 전할 기회가 된다면 공식적으로 (팬들에게) 너무 죄송했다고 말하고 싶었다"며
"의도와는 다르게 오해가 쌓였다 제가 왜 원더걸스를 버렸겠나 그럴 마음이 없었다본의아니게 상처를 드려 죄송하다, 이 자리를 빌려 말씀드리고 싶다"며 팬들에게 오해에 대한 해명과 함께 진심을 전했다.
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